bro introduced me to this clip. love pam oei for her malay slang lah. such a waste that i judged them through their image tat i din bother watching it then. but its ok,im still happy that i got a sneek peek at it.

i remember having a discussion with my parents in the car. it started out by talking about one's fate in marriage etc. then it grew into both men and women's rights. we discuss about the issue of some men behaving like a king towards their wife. even simple things such as taking off their shoe is impossible. instead,they would ask their wife to do it. such men just makes me puke lah. i truly believe in equality. its not that i would never sacrifice a few things for my husband(in the future). but if both of us have our own career,i expect things to be about the same. i don't mind making him drinks when he just got back from work,or even massage his back. but hell no to letting me do all the house work.

pampering and making me a slave is two different things. i know i will respect my husband as it is compulsory to do that.even religion-wise. but not to an extend where i have to always treat him like a king. ive thought about it and i think i will want him to fold the clothes. haha! i just hate folding clothes so i will hope my man will help me in doing it instead. other chores can be done by me. haha. from cleaning the house,cooking to taking care of the kids.

i got an uncle who expects the wife to always serve him. that really disgust me. from taking the remote control himself,to taking off his shoes to expecting a drink once he got back from work. where is the equality here? my goodness,men can be too egoistic sometimes. if both are working,that means both are tired. so give her a break lah. gosh

Labels: rights

im truly addicted to pop art. i love editing pics. and its so fun learning new ways to modify one's pics. if only i could make it my job. I LOVE PHOTOSHOP!
gotten this very useful tutorial out of the net and its so awesome. as usual,i do hope one day i would have the time to fully complete it. too bad,i hate sitting in front of the comp for too long hours. ok..nuf said. i'll just show what im talking about. by the way,its not my work. its all stolen from the net. im keen to do a pic of my own someday though.

You Are An ENTP

The Visionary You are charming, outgoing, friendly. You make a good first impression. You possess good negotiating skills and can convince anyone of anything. Happy to be the center of attention, you love to tell stories and show off. You're very clever, but not disciplined enough to do well in structured environments. In love, you see everything as a grand adventure. You enjoy taking risks for love. And if things don't work out, you're usually not too much worse for the wear! You would make a great entrepreneur, marketing executive, or actor. At work, you need a lot of freedom to pursue your own path and vision. How you see yourself: Analytical, creative, and peaceful When other people don't get you, they see you as: Detached, wishy-washy, and superficial

ok i was out for raya on saturday. at my aunt's place,i saw a pic in a frame. it sure made me laugh. the pic was a picture of my aunt with my cousin on her wedding day. but the frame was unsuitable. it wrote "Don't give up on yourself". haha.. so the wedding is something negative is it?? haha

as i was about to bath,i look at myself in the mirror.
scars so many
unfortunately,it stays forever
all because of his work.
how i wish,i aint related to you
i wonder to myself,will i even cry when ure gone?
im certain i will not
cos all that uve brought upon me is pain and more pain
the only image i have of u is misery
yes,ure mr misery
never have i felt happy near you.
if only........
........

His bro hit and punch me. Yet all he could say was "ignore him lah" and "just lay down elsewhere"? So much for being there for me. This just sucks!

just watched Love is Cinta through youTube. im such a cheapo. and i know. haha! been so curious why they are advertising so much on this show. everywhere i go,i kept bumping into their poster. so just thought why not just see whats good about it.

the whole plot is too dumb. truthfully,i think Indonesians cant come up with good shows. that is especially true for horror stories by them. but somehow for this particular show,i cried. yes. im sucha sucka for mushy love stories. somehow being in love made me understand the pain when some situation do happen. of course i din cry like some pathetic loser lah. just the silent harmful tears. hehehe

ok. im off to browse for handphones. i can start recontract my plan ready. yeay me!